KOCANIN ERKEK KARDEŞİYLE AYNI EVDE OTURMAK ,KAYIN VE GELİN MAHREMİYETİ

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Fatwa
no.11082
Q: What
arethe limits of a woman’s relationship with
her brother-in-law?Please
clarify the Islamic lawful way of dealing with him. I have a very
close relationship with my brother-in-law,
he is like a bigbrother and
mentor to me, and we consider him as a trusted person who is keen to
do what is in our
best interests. I hope that you will clarify whether it is it
permissible for me to sit with him in the
presence of my family members; my mother, sisters, or husband for
example? What are the limits of Hijab (veil) in his
presence and are there any permitted or required matters, or any
precautions? Please advise me and may Allah reward you with the best!


A:A brother-in-law is
not among a woman’s Mahrams (spouse or unmarriageable relatives);
he is considered as an Ajnaby (man lawful for the woman to marry) to
her. It is not Halal (lawful) for her to uncover her face in front
of him, shake hands with him, be in Khulwah
(being alone with a member of the opposite sex) with him, or travel
with him; he is just like any other Ajnaby. However, there is no harm
if a woman sits with her brother-in-law
in the presence of one of her Mahrams, as long
as she is wearing Hijab, dressed modestly, and observing the
appropriate manners.

( الجزء رقم : 17، الصفحة رقم: 421)

May Allah
grant us success! May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet
Muhammad, his family, and Companions!

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fetva
diyor ki kadin mahremi yaninda oldugu surece kayniyla
oturabilir.


S:
Kocamin erkek kardesleriyle ve ailesinin diger erkek uyeleriyle olan
iliskim nasil olmalidir?Allah’a sukurler olsunki pece takiyorum ve
yuzumu goremiyorlar. Kendi ozel yasam alanlarimiz olan Ayni evi
paylasiyorsak onlarla konusmama izin var midir?Aralarinda hasta olan
varsa onlarin halini sorma babinda onlarla konusabilir miyim?
C:
Gercek anlattiginiz gibiyse onlarla konusmaniz caizdir, onlara nasil
oldugunu sorabilir ve genel manada helal konularda,konusmanizda
yumusak ve sevecen olmamak ve onlarla yani size mahrem olmayanlarla
yanliz kalmamak sartiyla konusabilirsiniz.
Suudi Arabistan Ilmi
Arastirmalar ve Fetva Kurumu
Abdullah Bin Kaud, Abdullah Bin
Gudayan,AbdulRezzak Afifi, AbdulAziz Bin Abdullah Bin Baz



S:
Esim pece takarken erkek kardesimle ayni odada oturmasi caiz midir?
Ayni evde yasiyoruz ve kendi yerimize tasinmaya gucumuz yetmiyor.
C:
Esiniz icin erkek kardesinizle veya ona mahrem olmayan diger erkek
akrabalarinizla yanliz bir bicimde oturmasi caiz degildir,onlarla el
sikisamaz , onlara suslerini gosteremez.
Suudi Arabistan Ilmi
Arastirmalar ve Fetva Kurumu
Abdullah Bin Gudayan,AbdulRezzak
Afifi,AbdulAziz Bin Abdullah Bin Baz






S:
Birinin baldiziyla konusmasi caiz midir?
C: Fitne korkusu yoksa ve
kizin tesettur kurallarina riayeti sartiyla,gereklilik halinde yanliz
olmadiklari surece birinin baldiziyla konusmasi caizdir.
Suudi
Arabistan Ilmi Arastirmalar ve Fetva Kurumu
Bekir Ebu Zeyd , Abdul
Aziz El El-Seyh, Salih El Fevzan, Abdullah bin Gudayan, Abdul Rezzak
Afifi, Abdul-Aziz Bin Abdullah Bin Baz